Nice first letter. I'm very cynical about online dating and somewhat practical too. You have to know the rules of this game in order to find something good there. I've done my time and found a very good person. And I've done it several times and for free! I don't believe in paying money for dating. I think it's not true about availability of women on the dating sites. Have you ever tried to register as a male and look on the other side? I've done it - it was my marketing research :)) The majority of women's profiles look like a grocery shopping list. They are worn out from non ideal candidates so they are trying to weather out what they don't want right from the start.....It doesn't work! Do you like fishing? Dating sites are very similar....First you need to put an appropriate bait for the fish you want to catch. Then you have to catch lots of fish! Then chose the best out of this pool. This is a short algorithm but it works! The key to success is to think from the position of a man and be proactive(they face the same problems - women want to use them and won't have sex ever!). There is no point of waiting for friendship and romance without setting up the right circumstances for them to happen. This is a dilemma that is true for any relationship start: you have to be open and generate positive energy to attract the right person, but then you are attractive for everybody else, including all the idiots of this world. Not to lose your cool and stay inside your borders is a trick! Good luck with this! I'm sure you will meet the right person, if not on the dating site but somewhere else....
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I'm very cynical about online dating and somewhat practical too. You have to know the rules of this game in order to find something good there. I've done my time and found a very good person. And I've done it several times and for free! I don't believe in paying money for dating.
I think it's not true about availability of women on the dating sites. Have you ever tried to register as a male and look on the other side? I've done it - it was my marketing research :)) The majority of women's profiles look like a grocery shopping list. They are worn out from non ideal candidates so they are trying to weather out what they don't want right from the start.....It doesn't work!
Do you like fishing? Dating sites are very similar....First you need to put an appropriate bait for the fish you want to catch. Then you have to catch lots of fish! Then chose the best out of this pool. This is a short algorithm but it works! The key to success is to think from the position of a man and be proactive(they face the same problems - women want to use them and won't have sex ever!). There is no point of waiting for friendship and romance without setting up the right circumstances for them to happen. This is a dilemma that is true for any relationship start: you have to be open and generate positive energy to attract the right person, but then you are attractive for everybody else, including all the idiots of this world. Not to lose your cool and stay inside your borders is a trick!
Good luck with this! I'm sure you will meet the right person, if not on the dating site but somewhere else....