Good for you! :) It is not true what you wrote, by the way, and I'm not naive. Men are usually more superficial than women, but many require more than simply beauty to sustain a relationship long-term. You would really be with a beautiful, yet stupid and boring woman for the rest of your life? I'm not looking for simply a love affair, but a life long companion. If a man sent me a message like you wrote, I would immediately disregard it. Just depends on the woman, and what she is seeking at that moment in her life...and, well, most women lead with sexuality. And I don't do this. The result? My relationships have all been solid, and long-term, starting first as friendships and them moving on to something romantic. We understood each other first as humans, not mere flesh for pounding. Btw, how old are you?