Everyone is different. I think it is very dangerous to place such a high priority on sex, however I agree to find real intimacy with another human, pure love - it is worth searching for, and living. Yet there are many reasons to live, many pathways to stimulation (both physical and mental). Those who see sex as the the only way - I feel they are not truly living, and need to search for more hobbies and passions in life. :) In general, sex is beautiful, enjoyable, many positive adjectives if it's with the right person - but this is only one aspect of life, or any relationship.