In the end only kindness matters...

I'm a man, I know something about men. I have friends, they are men too. I know no one who is afraid of women with children. Actually, woman with children is just as already cooked lunch: you can benefit from her (just as you can just eat your lunch) but you don't have to cook her! Look, newborn and toddlers cry all the time, they pea and poop everything, everywhere, ever. But when you find woman of 25 with children of 4 and 6 -- you get nice deal: no cries, no poop, just small clever people :)

PS: And you see, I'm not divorcing my wife and not leaving her with our son :)