http://boytsev.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] boytsev.livejournal.com) wrote in [personal profile] peacetraveler22 2013-08-22 05:23 am (UTC)

Well, most points that she makes are true for a majority of Russian men, but there is a point to make here - when I say majority i mean not educated, angry, hardworking, maybe even with criminal past men. And this is the way they are raised - woman is a sort of a housewife, attending to children, cooking dinner, pleasuring the man, etc.
And if we are to talk about educated Russian men, then the attitude is more European - woman is a reliable partner, that can pursue her career dreams and so on. But we will still pay for your dinner :D There's just something about this, that i, for example, can't throw out of my mind - i am so accustomed to do that.
I think it's a tradition which derives from the times, when men were the only ones making money. It's like a sign, that a man can pay for her, and provide for their future children :D Maybe this sound silly, but that's what it is, imho. If you'd read Russian women forums, such as http://www.woman.ru - most of them will say, that if a man didn't pay for her, she won't even consider him for a long-term relationship; maybe for sex, but that's all. Go figure.

And by the way, the point about rape i consider wrong, as even in Russian prisons, rapists are not at all respected by other criminals, they will surely have a harder time than, say, a murderer. It's like the second worst thing to do after raping a child.

Oral sex is very common, although not all men are willing to admit this, cause the church is not approving it :D Some think it's just embarrasing,

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