Interesting reading... Although it's rather full of stereotypes and personal opinions. Every man and woman sees relationship differently regardless of nationality and ethnicity. I think Gary Chapman made a good work explaining why people often can't get on with each other. Try reading his book 'The 5 love languages'. Its general concept is that when you meet your man/woman you should decipher his/her love language, learn to speak it, explain your love language to him/her and in response you'll get what you want: be it a creative and intellectual challenge, or a tamed animal who gets wild in bed... For me this book was a good help restoring relationship with my wife.