Yes, as I wrote above if a man insists on paying I'll let him. But I don't like it. It's obvious that I need an open-minded man, so of course he'll learn things from me as well. Travel is a deal breaker. It's my main passion, and I go away a lot of weekends and for long periods of time. I don't want anyone making me feel guilty for this. If he "tolerates" it as you say, that's fine also. But I'd prefer that he join me on the adventures. :)