Whatever I say can be true or not true because in Russia there are a lot of people with different education, cultural background and habits. It's like in America O J Simpson and Woody Allen would probably treat women differently :)
For example, I do oral sex with pleasure, consider a woman orgasm as the goal of sex, but do not like to pay for others :) But I paid for girls' meal because it's prescribed by the culture and they would not understand the opposite.
If you look from the traditional family building point of view it's logical. One man and one woman are building a vehicle for procreation together. So the man should demonstrate abilities to organize events for his girl and pay for them. And the girl should demostrate willingness to go where her man leads her and accept what he offers with a nice smile. If they go well together and like the same then the family will work well.
You know, as a programmer, I always think how to build complex systems that work well :)
Concerning your situation I think it should be a man that is willing to pay for your travels so you can stop the paper work you doing now and concentrate on things you really like.
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Whatever I say can be true or not true because in Russia there are a lot of people with different education, cultural background and habits.
It's like in America O J Simpson and Woody Allen would probably treat women differently :)
For example, I do oral sex with pleasure, consider a woman orgasm as the goal of sex, but do not like to pay for others :)
But I paid for girls' meal because it's prescribed by the culture and they would not understand the opposite.
If you look from the traditional family building point of view it's logical.
One man and one woman are building a vehicle for procreation together.
So the man should demonstrate abilities to organize events for his girl and pay for them.
And the girl should demostrate willingness to go where her man leads her and accept what he offers with a nice smile.
If they go well together and like the same then the family will work well.
You know, as a programmer, I always think how to build complex systems that work well :)
Concerning your situation I think it should be a man that is willing to pay for your travels so you can stop the paper work you doing now and concentrate on things you really like.