Why do men want to pay? To convey they are "providers"? And why do women think men should pay for everything? Explain. If you really want to understand that, you should turn to history and not only. Firstly, let turn to biology: human male is larger then male, it mean naturally, males are dominant. And historically, humanity followed this line up to early XX when formed feminism at the west and socialism come to east: from cavemen age when men leave homes for make hard (very hard!) work for extract food, females remain for to keep on fire, care about posterity and other work that not require so mush muscul strenght (but more stamina), up to late XIX when men worked plow on the field, axe in the forest, scythe on the hayfield and other works require much muscul power. This trend kept for centuries, milleniums just broken and forgotten for some tens years. Russians (and not only russians) could kept&carry it even thought socialism, where aggressively imposed "parti, égalité, fraternité", where done great agitation job for equation male and female in the cociety and later in 40s positions of women more strengthened, because there hadn't enough men for working at factories (i remember, if someone forgot or so ignorance for never learn it: there was world war in 1939-1945 and USSR participated in 1941-1945, after nazis attack USSR this 4 years was the bloodiest age in the world history), therefore women (with oldmen and chilren) replace them, but everyone understood, that who stood behing the machine yesterday, he is now somewhere in trench nearly Volokolamsk plugging ears risking his life every next moment. It showed that women also can work like men if it necessary, but the war ended and soldiers came back to homes... or what was left of it. Or just on scorched earth and melted stones ruins. They has been waited for a grand restoration and reconstruction work, where men showed that given to them by nature and everything fell into place with time. The Union raised up industry, ecomomy, came from food tickets to money, i.e. money became idicator that a man can to work, he have enough money for provide, keep family, he is ready to relations. And vice versa, if people around see that a man can't pay for a woman in restoraunt, it's great shame for him. It's like show that he isn't dominant, i.e. isn't male. But if he isn't male, who is him then? Double great shame! Ugh. Brrr. So, do you want to be object of derision? I think, answer is no. So don't make clowns from russian men. At least who remember that he is RUSSIAN MAN. Have a nice day!
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If you really want to understand that, you should turn to history and not only. Firstly, let turn to biology: human male is larger then male, it mean naturally, males are dominant. And historically, humanity followed this line up to early XX when formed feminism at the west and socialism come to east: from cavemen age when men leave homes for make hard (very hard!) work for extract food, females remain for to keep on fire, care about posterity and other work that not require so mush muscul strenght (but more stamina), up to late XIX when men worked plow on the field, axe in the forest, scythe on the hayfield and other works require much muscul power. This trend kept for centuries, milleniums just broken and forgotten for some tens years. Russians (and not only russians) could kept&carry it even thought socialism, where aggressively imposed "parti, égalité, fraternité", where done great agitation job for equation male and female in the cociety and later in 40s positions of women more strengthened, because there hadn't enough men for working at factories (i remember, if someone forgot or so ignorance for never learn it: there was world war in 1939-1945 and USSR participated in 1941-1945, after nazis attack USSR this 4 years was the bloodiest age in the world history), therefore women (with oldmen and chilren) replace them, but everyone understood, that who stood behing the machine yesterday, he is now somewhere in trench nearly Volokolamsk plugging ears risking his life every next moment. It showed that women also can work like men if it necessary, but the war ended and soldiers came back to homes... or what was left of it. Or just on scorched earth and melted stones ruins. They has been waited for a grand restoration and reconstruction work, where men showed that given to them by nature and everything fell into place with time. The Union raised up industry, ecomomy, came from food tickets to money, i.e. money became idicator that a man can to work, he have enough money for provide, keep family, he is ready to relations. And vice versa, if people around see that a man can't pay for a woman in restoraunt, it's great shame for him. It's like show that he isn't dominant, i.e. isn't male. But if he isn't male, who is him then? Double great shame! Ugh. Brrr.
So, do you want to be object of derision? I think, answer is no. So don't make clowns from russian men. At least who remember that he is RUSSIAN MAN.
Have a nice day!