may I ask, where are u from originally? your ethnicity? first, how can u judge all male russians according to your experience and someone's observations (though she is a russian from st.petersburg, she is still a lady with her OWN experience and she attracts boyfriends ONLY from her social network)? how can you ever group people like that? if i imagine a Russian man with the bunch of characteristics you've described, well... then i get shocked because its simply impossible, it is not a regular russian man i've been facing all my life with. second, ethnicity never says much about real personality, especially when a one leaves his\her native land. i've met many decent americans (mostly 33-35+), who don't take sex airily, the definition of "casual sex" doesn't exist in their mind ("rare americans" you'll say, huh?). and yes, russian men don't do casual sex often. neither men nor women, that's our upbringing, our culture, our accomplishment, our heritage! there are always exceptions - but they are as far as they eye can see. you will always encounter exceptions third. let me disagree, finally. aggressive? oh yes, may be when a one gets drunk it happens. the guy #1 punched the guy #2 in face cause #2 took liberties... well, what is the crowd and what are the relationships when this "all of sudden" happens? is the guy #2 so stupid and he didn't know his (russian) culture as good as you do so he couldn't help but had his face black and blue eventually?)) i love this chapter of yours (of her) :)))) it was a very shady crowd back to the village and this is not a disadvantage of all russian men - this is a one of a girl you have honor to know and to summarize. again, the way we are is the way of people have been attracted in our life forth, yes, they pay for us and we don't mind - why should we? this is not actually about paying in a particular moment under particular conditions (restaurant, taxi, store, wherever), but this is an attitude towards paying. when he pays for me he feels good. and i love giving him this feeling. when i dated a poor student long time ago he was spending all money on me , i was confused!!!)of course these actions embarrassed me a lot! but every time when i refused of his paying he aggrieved on me, do you understand? he didn't consider it right if i paid myself! there is nothing we need to prove, we don't show our self-sufficiency this way, what for?)) certainly man always pays if he invited first, not because i don't want to pay - russian lady always ready to cash out!-but because we are used to it, and if men asks to share bill, it definitely shoots down romantic promises of him, or there are simply no promises so he ask to share, or he simply saves money all i'm saying, we are ready to be paid, we don't owe nothing instead, we are just being feminine and that's how we see femininity fifth, certainly, i wish you to get your personal life on the right track, to find a soulmate and if russian - let him be the best russian man you knew!
russian female the defender!)
first, how can u judge all male russians according to your experience and someone's observations (though she is a russian from st.petersburg, she is still a lady with her OWN experience and she attracts boyfriends ONLY from her social network)? how can you ever group people like that? if i imagine a Russian man with the bunch of characteristics you've described, well... then i get shocked because its simply impossible, it is not a regular russian man i've been facing all my life with.
second, ethnicity never says much about real personality, especially when a one leaves his\her native land. i've met many decent americans (mostly 33-35+), who don't take sex airily, the definition of "casual sex" doesn't exist in their mind ("rare americans" you'll say, huh?). and yes, russian men don't do casual sex often. neither men nor women, that's our upbringing, our culture, our accomplishment, our heritage! there are always exceptions - but they are as far as they eye can see. you will always encounter exceptions
third. let me disagree, finally. aggressive? oh yes, may be when a one gets drunk it happens. the guy #1 punched the guy #2 in face cause #2 took liberties... well, what is the crowd and what are the relationships when this "all of sudden" happens? is the guy #2 so stupid and he didn't know his (russian) culture as good as you do so he couldn't help but had his face black and blue eventually?)) i love this chapter of yours (of her) :)))) it was a very shady crowd back to the village and this is not a disadvantage of all russian men - this is a one of a girl you have honor to know and to summarize. again, the way we are is the way of people have been attracted in our life
forth, yes, they pay for us and we don't mind - why should we? this is not actually about paying in a particular moment under particular conditions (restaurant, taxi, store, wherever), but this is an attitude towards paying. when he pays for me he feels good. and i love giving him this feeling. when i dated a poor student long time ago he was spending all money on me , i was confused!!!)of course these actions embarrassed me a lot! but every time when i refused of his paying he aggrieved on me, do you understand? he didn't consider it right if i paid myself! there is nothing we need to prove, we don't show our self-sufficiency this way, what for?))
certainly man always pays if he invited first, not because i don't want to pay - russian lady always ready to cash out!-but because we are used to it, and if men asks to share bill, it definitely shoots down romantic promises of him, or there are simply no promises so he ask to share, or he simply saves money
all i'm saying, we are ready to be paid, we don't owe nothing instead, we are just being feminine and that's how we see femininity
fifth, certainly, i wish you to get your personal life on the right track, to find a soulmate and if russian - let him be the best russian man you knew!