It looks like i've been dating with wrong russian men. XD Maybe my "american girl"-acting is the cause. When someone tries to tell my what should i do or whom i must not talk to, he goes "nakhui s plyaja" (i mean he get's the f**ck out of me). But somehow all the guys surrounding me are really nice and caring. Those guys, who respect others needs. So there are a lot of russian men, who don't hit the description.
Otherwise, many russian women complain, that russian men are not like that. I mean, they don't pay for your dinner, don't protect you and so on. Just understand me correctly, lot's of russian girls earn enough, but this is kinda tradition, showing, that men can care about you. It was all normal before western culture came. And now it's neither one thing nor another: too many guys now think, that paying for your dinner is a favour you should (or must) refund (meaning sex of course). That's why me personally prefer to do it myself.
I've never dated foreigners (i'm russian... kinda), but a man of your dream as you describe him really could be russian. :) And it's really bullshit what the girl writes about oral sex: it follows from this that i'm a russian man (O_o) cause i really hate cunnilingus. :) Sometimes it's really hard to repel someone's attempt to perform it.