In the end only kindness matters...

I think you are confusing the cause and the consequences. In fact russian woman(who is spoiled and greedy right now) are insisting that a man will throw money, power, fancy car, etc at her or at least would pay for coffee in a cafe. And in return a man has a every right to expect from a woman to follow his orders, bacause he has, in fact, bought her. Literally. And if you dont like such state of things, you don't need to search for a guy with western mentality. All have to do is to create a profile on a russian dating site(mamba will do fine) and write there openly that you have lots of money and ready to spend them on your bedfellow as long as he satisfies your whims. You will be surprised how many russian men will throw away their mentality and make themselves available. It has nothing to do btw with nationality or gender stereotypes. That's how capitalism works. Man and woman, rich and poor, strong and weak, pier woodman and natasha, employer and employee. You westerners just learned to obfuscate such state of things political correctness and random meaningless words like freedom, human rights etc, etc. I don't want evet spend my time on typing them. That's btw why we dont like you and you dont like us. You know how make nasty things look a decent things, and we he in russia dont know how and that is more important dont want to. Here in russia, young capitalistic country we like to name things with their real names: if i have the money and you desperately need them you will do what i want you to do and if you refuse after taking money, i will force you to act as i desire. That is btw how your government acts with all its international monetary funds and "no flight zones".
Sorry for possible mistakes, i am a little bit sober right now.