I also prefer imposing men, but I am very critical about their hair. The hair should always be in order! And if a man has a long hair it is more difficult for him to keep them in order than for a short-haired man. That is why I prefer the short-haired ones. :)))
As for a recipe for women who want to be dateable I have the only one - be self-sufficient! Other people need us as a strong people, the people who can support them, interesting people, not whining persons who ask everybody to help them, who complain to everyone that they are lonely and everything is boring and so on... So if you want a strong and interesting man to notice you - you should be self-sufficient, strong and interesting by yourself, this is my recipe :)))