That's a typical logic of Russian women which put men as center of their existence. No husband, no kids, you are lost to the society. Why? In my personal point of view it comes from the times when very few men returned from the WW2 and there was not enough men for every woman. Since then there is a common fear to be left alone especially after a certain age. Does not happen much with men since they can find a partner in almost any circumstances.

And trust me, you are too good for the most Russian men of your age.