This is a bit feministic view of things, isn't it?
A friend of mine, a beautiful lady, had a lot of such miscommunications in the past. When she rejected flirt and courtship, she meant it; yes, she might be looking for a relationship, but no, she was not looking for a relationship with _this specific man_, there was no chemistry, no feelings. And she regularly had immense trouble to explain that to men. Conversely, it often happened, when there was relationship, she expected sincerety and full immersion, and she didn't get it, and she was smart enough to recognize it. Mines on all the trails.
She periodically writes about love and relationships; I think I even gave you a link to her LJ / VK account.
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A friend of mine, a beautiful lady, had a lot of such miscommunications in the past. When she rejected flirt and courtship, she meant it; yes, she might be looking for a relationship, but no, she was not looking for a relationship with _this specific man_, there was no chemistry, no feelings. And she regularly had immense trouble to explain that to men. Conversely, it often happened, when there was relationship, she expected sincerety and full immersion, and she didn't get it, and she was smart enough to recognize it. Mines on all the trails.
She periodically writes about love and relationships; I think I even gave you a link to her LJ / VK account.