Discrimination against the childless!

[peacetraveler22]

America is a country of convenience, but for whom? In Virginia, we're having torrential rains the past few days, but this doesn't stop me from doing ordinary chores. A woman still has to eat, even in the pouring rain. After a very long day in the office, I drove to a crowded new grocery store. I had no umbrella, so my tired eyes began searching for a parking space near the entrance so I wouldn't get even more wet. Then I saw this sign!! Right beside the handicapped spaces in each parking aisle are two reserved spots for "Customers with Children." Why? Tell me please why I should have to park further away, carry my heavy bags a longer distance, and get soaking wet just because I'm childless? Being a parent is suddenly a handicap, worthy of a special parking spot?

Then I went inside the store and saw delicious cookies being offered by "Harry the Happy Dragon." But for kids only. What happens if I decide to take one? Will the dragon breathe fire at me? :)



Do you think parents should have special parking spaces? I don't. I'm sure being a parent is one of the most rewarding and life changing events in a human's life, but with this choice also comes a new set of responsibilities, joys and inconveniences. One of them includes taking much longer to leave the house, board the car and leave it, especially when dealing with an infant. I've done it many, many times with young relatives and my nephew. Such is life...

I love children, but don't think parenthood should equal special and favorable treatment. Not at the grocery store and definitely not in the workplace. How about airplanes, and the nightmare of having an unruly and screaming child near you? Of course, we've all experienced it and in such situations I'm usually very calm and sympathetic as long as the parent tries to correct the child's behavior. Should single people and solo travelers have a "child free" cabin, so they can rest in peace during long flights? :) Personally, I think this idea is ridiculous.

Do you have these special parking spaces for parents at Russian stores?

Comments

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

Physically intact? So are the mothers with children. Of course, I understand the need for handicap parking spaces, but not spaces for parents.

[selfmade.livejournal.com]

Primarily we live to get birth to next generation. Secondarily, to have fun on the way. Parents perform the most important function. A little appreciation wouldn't hurt. But I agree with you that appreciation should be voluntary, not mandatory.

What's the need for handicapped parking?

[xpo-xpo-xpo.livejournal.com]

If you want to be disabled, pay your penalty! If you don't, kill yourself.

What's the difference between being disabled and being parent? Everybody knows the rule. If you want better parking place - you can just have a child!

Re: What's the need for handicapped parking?

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

This is the problem. Too many women think of "reasons" to have a child - to keep their boyfriend or husband, to get benefits, to please others and conform to society, but not out of true desire to procreate. Such people usually are bad parents, producing damaged adults.