To hell with the hipsters!...let's talk about real men

[peacetraveler22]

In this photo, my ideal man! Rugged, a bit nerdy, kind, intelligent, good with his hands and incredibly creative. It's a rare combination, difficult to find in one human. Sadly, he lives very far away. Next week, I'll tell you about him and the town in which he lives. What do you think? Is he handsome? :) Of course, there's no single definition of a "real man." To define a man in only one way is sexist! :) Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and sometimes sexual chemistry comes when you least expect it. However, since university, I've always been attracted to men like this, rather than macho personas or businessmen flashing money and fancy cars...Can you guess where he lives? Do you have a certain "type" of man or woman to which you're attracted?

Comments

[mystery-86.livejournal.com]

Is he from Ireland?

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

No, but good guess! He looks totally Irish. I would've guessed the same. :)

[anna-sollanna.livejournal.com]

> Can you guess where he lives?
In New Zealand? ;)
> Do you have a certain "type" of man
Definitely yes! But my type is closer to which you call flashing businessmen. In suit and tie, clean shaven, smelling with expensive perfume (and money ;))) As for personal features - a man who knows what he he wants and how to get it; a man who can protect and support you but value you as a person. (I myself can be a very supportive helpmate, but I appreciate when I get help and support for my ones. ;)))

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

Then you should work in American law firm! :)) Here, there are a lot of men in suits with a lot of money!

[zhang-fei.livejournal.com]

Is he your brother?

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

I'm not sexually attracted to relatives..eww! No, he's not my brother. You think we look alike? :)

[zhang-fei.livejournal.com]

I don't know, you redheaded Irish look all the same to me)

[notfop.livejournal.com]

He's like me- craftsman, but i'm a brunette )

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

Craftsman are very useful, but they are a dying breed. :(

[qi-tronic.livejournal.com]

Haha, for this particular man it has nothing to do with his qualities.
You just see in him your own face like in a mirror :)

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

Maybe I'm secretly a narcissist, in love with my own reflection? :)) But I don't see any resemblance in our facial features.

[qi-tronic.livejournal.com]

I do :)
VERY often people have sympathy to others when they see enough similarity so they can perfectly understand (or think that they understand) the emotions of them.

It should not be an exact copy. Just a similar smile, eye line or something.
I heard there's even a special dating site which specializes on offering you partners based on face similarity calculation.

business interest

[(Anonymous)]

Hi, I'm interested is there some private business in america which can sell me tenderness and other good human feelings I would pay good money for that. Please dont offer a prostitution, they sell only sex.

Re: business interest

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

Such tenderness and positive emotions must come from within, they can't be bought or manufactured. :)

Re: business interest

[(Anonymous)]

What should I do if they dont come from within and from life around?

Re: business interest

[(Anonymous)]

I dont belive, in capitalism all can be bought. Demand generates supply is the main law of free market.

Re: business interest

[(Anonymous)]

Sorry but arent positive emotions given by freedom, free market,human rights. You must be happy that you live in free country, USA.

[(Anonymous)]

Then why did you create this blog if for positive emotions you need nothing except yourself? So you lie for positive emotions you need other people because in USA you have big problems with sincere positive relations. Why does a half of americans use Prozac if its so easy to get positive emotions from within? In USA nobody gonna talk to each other for free only for money. So you come to Russia. Or I'm not right? Answer me if you are not afraid to be honest to yourself.

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

Yes, I'm happy. I love the USA. :) It has provided me with a wonderful life, I have no complaints, and have found no other country in which I wish to live (so far).

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

"in USA you have big problems with sincere positive relations..." Really? This is news to me. :) You've been to the USA, or simply learn about it from your TV screen? "Half of Americans on Prozac." Again, a complete lie. Less than 15% of Americans are on anti-depressants according to a 2014 study. Yet, Russia ranks in the top three countries for alcoholism, with huge numbers of Russian men dying before they even reach 60 because of vodka. This is normal? Yes, Russia a highly spiritual and happy country!!!

[k-netalie.livejournal.com]

once i thought why to restrict the choice with any certain type of a man) but i believe that we all have such a type of a person specified by our character, individualities. mine is someone with a very complex inner structure. and with beautiful hands with long fingers, we call it "musical fingers")

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

I agree! The main thing for me is that a man is kind, creative and adventurous. I also love musicians. :)