To hell with the hipsters!...let's talk about real men

[peacetraveler22]

In this photo, my ideal man! Rugged, a bit nerdy, kind, intelligent, good with his hands and incredibly creative. It's a rare combination, difficult to find in one human. Sadly, he lives very far away. Next week, I'll tell you about him and the town in which he lives. What do you think? Is he handsome? :) Of course, there's no single definition of a "real man." To define a man in only one way is sexist! :) Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and sometimes sexual chemistry comes when you least expect it. However, since university, I've always been attracted to men like this, rather than macho personas or businessmen flashing money and fancy cars...Can you guess where he lives? Do you have a certain "type" of man or woman to which you're attracted?

Comments

[elinelisky.livejournal.com]

He looks kind and attractive, like a big cat. He seems like a nice person.
I think, if you both feels something to each other, you can try live together, no matter where.))
But... do he live in Russia?)))

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

No, he is not European!

[aavenger.livejournal.com]

Despite I am easy to walk in many people's shoes - never been able to judge men from women's point of view, therefore I will be of no input with regards to your questions :)))

By the way, Shannon, you are on a pretty slippery way: if one of your readers is in love with you and commits a suicide for not being your ideal man - will you accept such a burden? :)))

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

Well, I know you like round, soft women. Normal man. :)

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

Yes!! I don't see how people stay with mindless people, no matter how bright and shiny they are on the outside. It grows so boring and uninteresting. :)

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

Meow! :)) He doesn't live in Russia. I cannot do a long distance relationship long-term. Maybe for a few months, but no more. I grew up before social media, texting and Facetime. So, I still prefer human interaction. To touch and feel someone in my immediate presence, not virtually. :)

[don-oles.livejournal.com]

"kind" is all that matters.

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

Readers should not worry what I think of their physical appearance! If I don't like it, some other woman will. :) This is the beauty of sexual attraction. It's different for everyone. I try to post only unflattering photos of myself here in the blog, not sexy ones. This is why some male readers constantly criticize my clothing, "thickish" body type, etc. I don't want Internet stalkers. This is scary, but some female bloggers have no problem posting half-naked photos of their ass and body here. They are the most popular female writers on this platform. I guess for Russian women it's different, they're trained to be more provocative based on social norms to get attention. But, in America, women can get the attention of a man in other ways. Being sexy/provocative - this is only for a special man in my view. Not the entire universe. :))

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

Yes! It's so important, but often lacking. :(

[a-nimaida.livejournal.com]

черт! ))


не буду больше гадать )

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

In Europe, I like Nordic men. :)

[a-nimaida.livejournal.com]

open secret)
where is he from ?

[aavenger.livejournal.com]

No talks about being sexy and provocative, just imagine someone silently loves you as you are - and surprisingly finds himself out of question :) Yeah, you are not in charge and responsibility for someone's dreams, but sometimes universe can become of a different size - less or more :))) So where are the red lines and gravity wells for our day to day behaviour? :)))

[yarowind.livejournal.com]

Yes, he looks like real men:)

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

:)) Like a caveman, but a sensitive one!

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

I will tell you next week. Be patient. :)

[red-but-sad.livejournal.com]

Oh my, I think my ovaries have just exploded! (don't tell my husband I said that) He's just my type and he looks amazing in this photo, especially with the nice side lighting setup. So where is he from? He definitely looks nordic.

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

We have the same taste in men? :) He is mine, stay away!! Just kidding...no, he's not Nordic.

[a-nimaida.livejournal.com]

oh ..)))

[theodorexxx.livejournal.com]

His has too much hairs on his head (and it's not about his beard)

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

So do I. :) Our children would have wild hair!! What kind of women do you like? Thin, thick, athletic, brainy?

[theodorexxx.livejournal.com]

wow it went that far..my congratulations..when are u gonna marry?

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

It was a joke. I met this man for only one day. :)

[theodorexxx.livejournal.com]

was he a good lover?

[peacetraveler22.livejournal.com]

I don't know, but I imagine the answer to be YES! :)) I've never slept with a man after knowing him only one day, or even a week. It takes much longer for me to hop into bed with someone.