Older Women
Aug. 9th, 2013 11:13 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
My blogosphere buddy
inamora laid out an interesting post today about women over 40. This is my exact age, having celebrated my 40th birthday this February in Moscow. I can hardly believe it because I still feel like a twenty year old in spirit. The post and comments are really interesting. I think next week I'll lay out a post about being a single, childless woman at 40. It seems inconceivable to many, especially Russian men, that a woman in this position can be happy and fulfilled.
I highly recommend this blogger. We're different in many ways - she's openly promiscuous and I'm a serial monogamist. The things we want from a man are in most ways opposite. However, she's very intelligent and an interesting writer. I like her much better than the prostitute blogger, or that horror miss_tramell who is always in TOP LJ. I don't understand the appeal of this blogger at all.
To me, age has always been merely a number. I've dated men much younger than me, and men my own age. But never an older man. The most important thing in a partner is finding true comfort, someone who accepts you as is and shares the same passions in life. Older women - we're not so bad! Trust me. ;)
Have a nice weekend!
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I highly recommend this blogger. We're different in many ways - she's openly promiscuous and I'm a serial monogamist. The things we want from a man are in most ways opposite. However, she's very intelligent and an interesting writer. I like her much better than the prostitute blogger, or that horror miss_tramell who is always in TOP LJ. I don't understand the appeal of this blogger at all.
To me, age has always been merely a number. I've dated men much younger than me, and men my own age. But never an older man. The most important thing in a partner is finding true comfort, someone who accepts you as is and shares the same passions in life. Older women - we're not so bad! Trust me. ;)
Have a nice weekend!
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Date: 2013-08-09 09:21 pm (UTC)i can't take my age. the number seems to be so enormous. it's not mine. maybe because i don't feel wise enough, grown-up enough i'm supposed to be according to my age))
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Date: 2013-08-11 02:44 pm (UTC)Я почти не знаю их
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Date: 2013-08-12 12:34 pm (UTC)Re: ages
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Date: 2013-08-13 07:27 am (UTC)"Russian girls are beautiful and educated in the patriarchal traditions, so that for many American men - it is just what they need. Marriage" American man - Russian Girl "is common, but marriage" American Girl - Russian guy "- a very rare. should say that marriages "black man - white woman" - is a common thing, but the "white man - a black woman" - a rarity. just like the "white guy - Asian" - is the norm, and the family "white woman - Asian "- not every day you meet."
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Date: 2013-08-13 01:29 pm (UTC)If an American man wants a traditional, stay-at-home, cook me dinner and raise babies type of woman then perhaps he searches for a Russian or Eastern Euro bride. There are online agencies for this. However, I believe the current generation is becoming more Americanized and independent, with focus on career and personal fulfillment outside of traditional standards. And I know some Russian men married to American women, or dating them. So not all men are intimidated by a successful, self-sufficient woman. :)
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Date: 2013-08-14 03:05 pm (UTC)Her choice of words is incredibly vulgar. Maybe it amuses you bcs. Russian isn't your native language. My Polish teacher and friend was equally excited about Russian obscene words. But I want to wash my hands after the very first page of inamora's journal.
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Date: 2013-08-19 11:05 am (UTC)The blogger "inomara" is egocentric and entertaining, but her audience and some of the commentators are soooo weird that from now on I just stick to be an occasional reader).
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Date: 2013-08-19 02:07 pm (UTC)The differences between American and Russian culture on almost every level are huge. :)) American women make their own way in life. We're not so reliant on men for financial support and we're capable of doing almost everything on our own. It doesn't mean we don't cherish manly qualities. It simply means we can easily survive w/out their presence. And I believe this is a good thing.
Re Julia (inamora), I believe egocentric is an understatement. :) I do find her fascinating, and her reader comments amusing. They are totally bizarre, complete acceptance of infidelity and promiscuity. Strange for me.
Welcome to my blog! I'm always happy to have new readers, esp. female ones as most of the comments on my posts are from men. How long have you lived in the States?
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Date: 2013-08-30 11:54 am (UTC)It was interesting!
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Date: 2013-08-30 01:09 pm (UTC)http://peacetraveler22.livejournal.com/10309.html
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Date: 2013-09-02 08:29 pm (UTC)I think that age - it's nothing. You can be old if you 18, and you can be young if you 60.
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