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About five years ago, a hot Ukrainian lifeguard started working at my apartment pool. I was in my mid-30's at the time, and he was only 18. Yet one day he swam up to me, flashed his charming smile, and we chatted for a very long time. I think he had absolutely no clue how old I was, but it didn't really matter. We instantly had great and deep conversations, about a wide range of topics, and remain close friends to this day.

I remember vividly something he told me about his lifeguard training before he arrived to the USA to participate in the work/travel program. The instructors informed the male lifeguards that American women are different, that sexual harassment laws in the U.S. are strict, and that a man can easily be convicted for flirtatious advances that would be considered ordinary and acceptable in other cultures. I don't know where all this paranoia comes from, but I want to explain briefly how sexual harassment laws work in America. Because the instructors were totally wrong. The most important lesson for the day - don't be afraid to talk to an American woman, compliment her, flirt with her, or ask her out....trust me, you will not be jailed for such actions. :))

First, sexual harassment laws mostly protect women and men in the workplace, not every day life situations. There are both Federal and State laws. In general, there are two types of sexual harassment actionable under U.S. law: (1) "quid pro quo" - this is an offer from a supervisor to receive a promotion, higher salary, or career advancement in exchange for sexual favors, or a threat of demotion if the subordinate refuses his advances; (2) "hostile work environment" - this is the more popular ground for a sexual harassment lawsuit. Women sometimes complain their work environment is "hostile" because the boss is a goat, jerk, looks at her in a sexual way, etc.

However, mere allegations of this type of behavior will never be enough to prevail in a sexual harassment lawsuit in America. The standard of proof for the Plaintiff is very, very high, and evidence must be documented and ongoing. In other words, the behavior must usually be repetitive to win a sexual harassment lawsuit. Victims need to have written documentation, witnesses, and sometimes even psychological reports to verify the impact the harassment has had on them. Without this, it's unlikely any judge or jury will find the person's work environment to be "hostile." Of course, strange cases always slip through the cracks and judges and juries sometimes get it wrong.


"Quid pro quo" is much easier to prove if there is written documentation. Obviously, if your boss is stupid enough to send an email or leave a voice mail message saying something like "fuck me, and you'll get the promotion..." he is pretty much screwed. And not in the way he wishes. :)

The public misunderstands the high burden on a person to prove sexual harassment. It takes a lot to convince a judge or jury that an employer's conduct transcended ordinary office nastiness or flirtation into illegal harassment. The Supreme Court once held that these laws are not a "general civility code for the American workplace." They are meant to protect people from flagrant and obvious violations by superiors.

Before I became a lawyer, I worked at a big law firm as a receptionist. How many jerks did I have to deal with? A lot. Numerous businessmen would come to the front desk to check in for meetings, comment on me and my co-workers physical appearance, even say things like "nice tits", etc. Did I drag each of them into court? No. :) Mostly because I don't care if men make these remarks in passing. I simply ignore them, but if they continued for a long period of time, or the men routinely touched me in an inappropriate manner, I would file a complaint with my employer. I assume it's the same in Russia? I doubt it's acceptable for a boss to be touching a woman's ass, stroking her hair or making suggestive comments in the workplace. And the same for a female boss behaving sexually toward a male subordinate.

A reader recently sent me a story about a Russian born scientist who came to work at an American university. He met a young, beautiful subordinate and instantly fell in love with her. He asked her out several times, and she refused. In total, he made four verbal attempts to date her. After this rejection, the scientist wrote the young beauty a letter, documenting his intense feelings and begging again for a relationship with her. The letter was the last straw - she went to the university Chancellor and complained of sexual harassment. She indicated she was nervous and uncomfortable around the scientist after she refused his advances. In an article about this case, the author portrayed this woman as a "bitch," claiming she was only trying to get money from the university, and that the scientist was totally "innocent" in his actions. What do you think? Is the scientist's behavior sexual harassment?

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In the U.S., many sexual harassment cases are brought and immediately thrown out of court. It's a pity that people abuse the laws, causing a lot of burden, wasted resources and money for employers, who are obligated to investigate the seriousness of such claims.

In real life dating and gender relations, these claims aren't relevant. You can't take a man to court for flirting with you, asking you out, staring at your boobs or ass, or even making inappropriate remarks. If someone grabs you, or touches you, I guess you could file a claim for assault or battery and maybe prevail. This doesn't mean an American woman won't smack you or yell at you for such actions. :) Over the years, many States have also enacted "stalker" laws to protect women and men from extreme cases of unwanted pursuit.

How does it work in Russia? Are there laws to protect against sexual harassment? Have you had any experience with naughty bosses or professors?


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Re: How does it work in Russia?

Date: 2015-02-05 06:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
If you can't reject sexual advances and keep your job, then there's something very wrong with the Russian legal system.
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Date: 2015-02-05 05:49 pm (UTC)
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Я никогда не видела и не слышала о домогательствах , ни одного неприличного замечания не было сделано в мой адрес. Спрашивать , как я выгляжу, не нужно - я выгляжу хорошо. Работаю в банке

Date: 2015-02-05 06:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
You think only beautiful women are harassed? :) It can happen to any one - fat, skinny, average appearance...

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What do you mean the bosses are under attacked by Moscow beauties? :) What do they demand from the boss?
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Date: 2015-02-05 06:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] z80.livejournal.com
Oh, just recalled an old video 'Sexual harassment rules' or something, that boils down to 'Be attractive. Don't be unattractive " :-D

Date: 2015-02-05 06:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
It's torture to sit through these sexual harassment lectures at work! But we all have to do it, at least in my office. When you're hired, this is part of training. Be a good boy or girl, and don't molest or make sexual comments about co-workers. :)

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Date: 2015-02-05 06:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] oblomius.livejournal.com
Because the instructors were totally wrong. The most important lesson for the day - don't be afraid to talk to an American woman, compliment her, flirt with her, or ask her out....trust me, you will not be jailed for such actions. :))
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Date: 2015-02-05 06:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
American women aren't so scary...everyone portrays us wrong. :(

Date: 2015-02-05 06:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] juan-gandhi.livejournal.com
Russia... I better not talk about Russia. There's no notion of respect towards other people. It's a dangerous place for anybody that does not have enough power to effecitvely resist. Violence is the argument.

But aside from that; what's funny, cultures vary. In US culture, repeating the same invitation twice is enough; the third one amounts to harassment. In Chinese culture, a girl should refuse thrice (like the brindle cat that mewed); so there's some kind of deadlock. (I do not find it frustrating, just funny.)

Date: 2015-02-05 06:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
One reader once told me that the behavior of the Russian scientist would be considered "romantic" by some Russian men. Here's her comment:

"In America, no means no. It's the biggest point of misunderstanding, a typical Russian man's philosophy is "if a woman says 'no', it means "may be'". But this is likely to scare or anger a typical American woman..." I don't know if this reader's comment is an accurate perception or exaggeration?

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Date: 2015-02-05 06:18 pm (UTC)
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I know no one who had experience with naughty bosses or professors. But once my known told me how he took advantage of women then he was a security at a factory. Women stole production and he caught them. So it was they payment.

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Date: 2015-02-05 06:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] capitan-blood.livejournal.com
Что бы не было проблем у нас в России, есть специальные сайты, где можно найти офисный персонал с "дополнительными обязанностями".

Можно поискать в гугле "секретарша с дополнительными обязанностями" и никакого херассмента.

Date: 2015-02-05 06:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
What "additional responsibilities?" Show me an example please.

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Date: 2015-02-05 06:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] moonrainbow.livejournal.com
You made me relieved. :)

In the old times - before I ever entered the US for the first time - I was sometimes wondering if I could get a sexual harrassment lawsuit by helping the lady to keep the door open while she goes through. :) Even though I am (almost!) certain now that it is not going to happen, I still feel I need to be extremely restrained in the US. You've got a reputation for a country, can't change it so easily.

It seems it is pretty much the same prejudice as all that stuff about "long legged secretary girls" in Russia. As with the sexual harrassment laws, the cases like that seem to be more told about than actually happen. There are policies in large companies about this as well. But clearly, in small businesses, specifically related to model, music and arts. a girl would get such sort of "offers" much more often than in big technological or banking business that I know better.
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Date: 2015-02-05 06:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
It's amazing that foreign men truly believe they could be sued for simply opening a door for an American woman, or complimenting her. :( It is not true...that's why I wrote this post. I think it's the same in America about the stories being "told" rather than actually happening. Because some women and men are evil - they use these threats and lawsuits to "shakedown" a big company for money, etc. They usually aren't successful, but the company still has to spend money on lawyer bills to defend themselves. This is the problem.

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remembered Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky))

Date: 2015-02-05 06:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
Yes! :) But that relationship was consensual. She was in love with him.

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Date: 2015-02-05 06:25 pm (UTC)
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Don't women like when a man touches them the way it is shown in the picture above?
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Date: 2015-02-05 06:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
Of course! :) But only if this touching is consensual, not being done by some aggressive maniac to which you aren't attracted.

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Date: 2015-02-05 06:55 pm (UTC)
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One of my female colleague also my ex-girlfriend complaint about me to our boss. I spanked her to ass even we were not dating this moment. Boss told me he didn't want to hear anything like that anymore. I agreed and left the girl alone.
I was dirty misogyny pig, I know. :)

Here in Mordor I have heard horror stories about a man occasionally stepped on a woman's foot, apologized a million times, but went to jail for billion years accused of sexual harassment. Like that.
Glad to read that it's not always true but my English teacher (an American) told us, our students, that USA are very puritanic country. Maybe he had an experience! =)

Date: 2015-02-05 07:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
It's bad to date a work colleague! Everything can turn horrible when you break up. I know, it happened to me. Of course, your behavior was unacceptable. Bad boy. :) I don't consider American females to be so "pure." How is stepping on a woman's foot sexual harassment? This is an erogenous zone I don't know about? :)

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Date: 2015-02-05 06:57 pm (UTC)
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What do you think about that video where a lady walks through Manhattan and gets lots of attention from men? I understand she was mad about all those advances.

Date: 2015-02-05 07:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
Yes, I know this video. :) Maybe New York men are different, but I've never seen so much harassment on the streets of Washington, DC. Or, maybe I'm just exceptionally ugly. :) In most cases, she doesn't say anything to the man. So, it's her own fault. If you want a man to stop following or speaking to you, tell him so, or go into a store or something and let him pass.

Date: 2015-02-05 06:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] victorlv.livejournal.com
Some employers fire or "promote" employees immediately after complain was submitted. I know few cases when lazy persons submitted harassment or discrimination report to management. After that report management can't do anything with them.

Date: 2015-02-05 07:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
Were the harassment claims legitimate or bogus? The worst is when such complaints are filed by government workers. The whole case gets caught up in bureaucratic channels/nightmares, and the investigation takes forever. However, both parties are usually protected in Federal jobs, until a determination has been made in the case. Very hard to get fired from a government job.

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Писать нужно по Русски!, а Секс это нормально.

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It is not necessary to write in Russian. Many people on LJ understand English fine. :)

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нихт ферштейн.

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Hey. Traveller, nice tits, by the way! :-D

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How do you know what my tits look like? I've never shown them on here. :))

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Почему не на русском?

Date: 2015-02-05 07:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
Because I'm American, and English is my native language. If I wrote in Russian, you would not understand me. So, English is better and all of my Russian readers understand the language fine.

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Евреи

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Re: Евреи

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Re: Евреи

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Вы в русской зоне

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Date: 2015-02-05 07:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] noddeat.livejournal.com
"I don't know where all this paranoia comes from"

Partly from propaganda, partly from lack of information. All media in the Soviet Union have no idea what fact checking is. In the US you have "yellow newspapers" but in the former USSR all newspapers are yellow. That's why people are so poorly informed.

After collapse of the Soviet Union the propaganda was no more government sponsored, yet a lot of people including journalists continued to spread false information about life in EU/US. It's hard to understand, why, I can think about the following explanation: you can be jailed in the Soviet Union if you openly express sympathy to the West. Even among "friends" there were "stukach" who informed security of all the conversations. That's why after 1990 many people unconsciously continued spreading bullshit about life in the US.

Date: 2015-02-05 08:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rise-man.livejournal.com
The USSR was nice and was dreadful. For instance, for my parents the USSR was rather good country... My father is builder He worked a hard, built industrial centres and factories. My mother is seamstress. My parents are usual. they never been bosses. And they never were interested political things... They have social guaranty, My Father was able to get a flat. My parents were sure that their children are able to get good education, ... and were sure that they could access to medical service good quality... might it is reason why they were more happy in USSR time then nowadays... it seems to me

But, for some people their life was broken... do you know I surprised when I am thinking about paradox... if everyone had a bad life in the USSR, how could get rather well quality of science, education, medical... I can't understand ...

I consider in soviet union times we had different things like good and bad. And of course people were like good,,, and bad,,, with high moral codex ... and with low standards of moral... .

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Date: 2015-02-05 07:28 pm (UTC)
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Крым наш

Американцы и Британцы лживые ублюдки

Date: 2015-02-05 08:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
Crimea...yes, completely relevant to my post! :) How much were you paid for this comment?

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Date: 2015-02-05 07:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cosmokram.livejournal.com
'The standard of proof for the Plaintiff is very, very high, and evidence must be documented and ongoing'

Really, now..?

Date: 2015-02-05 08:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
Yes, as I said. If you wish to refute my statement, provide evidence to contradict me. Not just words.

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Date: 2015-02-05 07:31 pm (UTC)
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This post has to be in LJ TOP25 )

Date: 2015-02-05 07:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
Doubtful, because the post is in English. If it was written in the Russian language, definitely. :))

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Date: 2015-02-05 07:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rise-man.livejournal.com
As for me, I think that in our country such laws aren't strict if compare with the USA.



Date: 2015-02-05 08:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
I don't understand anything about Russian laws, courts, or the legal system.

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Date: 2015-02-05 07:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] yana-anders.livejournal.com
Здесь, в Америке, почти во всех компаниях, где я работала, я проходила специальный тренинг - “Sexual Harassment Training”. Один из таких тренингов, который я прошла относительно недавно, немного отличался от других.
Вот написала об этом здесь:
О сексуальном домогательстве, или "Облико морале"
http://yana-anders.livejournal.com/161289.html

Date: 2015-02-05 07:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
Yes, this training is normal for all U.S. companies. We all have to sit through it. There's no such training at Russian companies?

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Date: 2015-02-05 07:42 pm (UTC)
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Sex.... ex....ex.....ex.... I like to move it, move it :))))

Date: 2015-02-05 08:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] peacetraveler22.livejournal.com
You have sex with American women, or only other Russian immigrants? :))

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